1.
Optimists know that you don’t necessarily need to achieve something in order to
be truly happy.
Happiness comes from within. It’s a
conscious decision that you need to make, whether or not things are going the
way you want them to.
If you provide a condition to your
happiness, like you’ll only be happy if you’re able to achieve something, then
what happens if that condition isn’t met?
Success isn’t a guaranteed factor.
If you equate happiness with success, you may be happy, but this
happiness stops the minute you start failing.
Give yourself the power to be
committed to being happy by adapting
a grateful outlook in life.
2.
They avoid negative people and refrain from encountering bad vibes.
Optimists are well aware that being
negative and being positive are both contagious. So, for them to create an
optimistic environment, they stay away from grouchy people who always complain.
Instead, they nourish relationships
with emotionally supportive and equally optimistic people. They know that life
is too short to spend with people who don’t really value them, so they choose
to spend it with people who do realize their worth.
3.
Optimists respect themselves and their time.
In a way, optimistic people are like
wild and brave souls–they are confident that they don’t need the approval of
anyone else in order to live their lives. Positive people know that people
will always judge them with whatever they do, so why bother
pleasing people when it’s obvious that you can never please everyone every
single time?
Optimists even have the courage and
the confidence to say no to things that don’t really matter to them. They’re
not pressured into doing something that they don’t really like, and they’re
free to pursue their passion
accordingly.
4.
Optimists are resourceful people.
Successful
entrepreneurs and optimists are both innovative
and creative individuals. They know that they’re never going to have everything
that they need, so they make do with what they have instead.
- Steve Jobs didn’t wallow in fear
when he didn’t have enough money to fund his startup: he sold his only means of
transportation, his VW Microbus, to finance it.
- Walt Disney didn’t go into severe
depression when he was told that Mickey Mouse is a “giant mouse on the screen
that would terrify women”; he pushed through and look at how famous and
well-loved Mickey is today.
- Donald Trump was bankrupt four
times (in 1991, 1992, 2004 and 2009) but his resourcefulness and innovation
gave him a $2.7 billion net worth today.
5.
They know that life is not fair–and they’re okay with that.
Most people feel grumpy, frustrated
or disappointed because they expect life to be fair for everyone.
Why does Justin Bieber have a lot of
haters? Because a lot of people don’t like the fact that he gets millions just
by performing and doing his hair flips regularly.
Why are there a lot of complainers
all over the world? Because they feel that they’re self-entitled to everything
that their neighbors have.
Why are there crime scenes? Because
people feel like they’re not given equal treatment (such as equal money with
the rest of the society), they should just go ahead and make things
equal. By taking the matter into their own hands, they commit crimes instead.
Optimists are not like these people.
They know that life is never going to be easy–it’s never fair and it’s never
predictable. In fact, they expect life to be unfair and
unpredictable most of the time! They accept the fact that their friends may be
given more money, that some celebrities are given more fame, and that some of
their loved ones are more successful in terms of romance.
And you know what?
They’re okay with that.
